Was it fate?

How we met, I have known my husband now for almost plus minus 11 years. I met him through a really good friend of mine. Nope it's not what you think. They were actually sort of dating at the time. Eyes rolling.... He didn't impress me much and it was not love at first site… Continue reading Was it fate?

The It, The I, and The Judge walk into a bar…

The founding father of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud, wrote an essay in the 1920s where he hypothesized that the human personality can be divided into three separate but interconnected facets; the id, the ego, and the super-ego. Each has it's part to play in making you who you are, and it's quite fascinating to read how… Continue reading The It, The I, and The Judge walk into a bar…

Die pad na self respek

Self respek... Die verleidelike vraag steek so nou en dan in my kop vas. Dit is so maklik om in die strik te trap. Dis n konstante herinnering van my verlede en al my mislukkings. Dit is n lokval! Self twyfel... jy kom soos n dief in die nag en betrap my altyd ontkant. Jy… Continue reading Die pad na self respek

You are not in control

After many hours of reading and audiobooks, I finally started getting a handle on why I feel so out of control in my mind and life. It's because I genuinely am. It's challenging to keep track of all the information provided in these books, so I started mind-mapping the concepts. Not only did this help… Continue reading You are not in control

Om jouself weer te vind, moet jy eers verdwaal! 

My pad is somtyds n kronkel pad met baie op draendes en onverwagse skerp draaie maar dis n pad wat elkeen van ons moet stap. Die pad het my al gelei na donker plekke waar mens alle self respek en moed verloor. In hierdie tye is n aanplak glimlag die naaste wat jy kan kom… Continue reading Om jouself weer te vind, moet jy eers verdwaal! 

Do I know you?

Over the past few months, I've been wrestling to find the answers to a few very basic questions. Most people probably have all of this figured out for themselves by the time they leave school. Me, however, I can honestly say I have never even remotely known the answers to any of these questions. Ever.… Continue reading Do I know you?